…that’s what it says on the inside of my wedding ring. It reminds me that I have it pretty good, all things considered.

I’m in my thirties and I have a nice wife and a nice life. my wife and i and my two cats are crammed into a small, moldy but cheap one-bedroom in Te Whanganui-a-Tara. she writes, and teaches art, and does illustrations. i muck around online, and teach programming and web/game/interactive technology, and even sometimes make games, occasionally. i also have a Second Life job as a lounge hostess, security and virtual fashion model. no, really, i do. it pays almost nothing, but it’s a lot of fun!